Our disappointment does not come from thinking of the result but rather in our desire to control it.
Love is Permanent Mistake is Volatile :
Often breakups occur when we marry them together in our minds, so we place someone on a pedestal in our heart and by doing that we allow them no freedom to make any mistakes, now as tradition would have it, they often make mistakes and that’s it, in the process of divorcing their mistakes from our minds we divorce the love too because we married them together.
We NEED to support our loved one even in their mistakes, however we just need to be clear that it is the Loved one we are supporting not their mistake. Love is Permanent, Mistake is volatile.